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Learning to be a Thanks-giver

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Several Thanksgivings ago, I wrote a piece about how I was learning to be a Thanks-giver. I’ve learned much since that Thanksgiving in 2011 (the dad of 3 kids has to be constantly learning), but this article still describes what I feel Thanksgiving really is.

It’s the week of Thanksgiving, one of our most important American holidays, and a writer would be remiss to not write about this important day.  Several hundred years ago, our forbears landed on the Atlantic coast and settled in for a long stay.  These early colonizers met their challenges with fear, trepidation, and thanks.  How could they be thankful for a cold, harsh, dangerous and imperfect new land where life was precarious and so many of them would die?  Freedom.  Not just any kind of freedom, but the freedom to worship God in the way that they believed the Bible taught was correct.

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At my family’s Thanksgiving gathering this year we will no doubt gather around the table, holding hands and each of us recite one thing that we are thankful for this year.  Someone will mention our soldiers overseas, someone else will mention having work, another their health, and invariably someone will mention family.  We are so blessed to have our family, as crazy and imperfect as some of them may be.  Isn’t that the crux of our society’s current ills?  The failure as a culture to remember just how important our families are? Fatherlessness, single mothers, broken marriages, abuse, addiction, abortion… aren’t all of these just symptoms of a basic misunderstanding of what the family is supposed to be?  The family is supposed to be a brilliant reflection of God’s desired relationship with us, a community of love, mercy, discipline and most importantly grace. 

I want to give thanks today for my family.  I am so thankful for my beautiful and brilliant (in so many ways) wife, Leah.  I am so thankful for my three wonderfully unique, hilarious, and energetic children who brighten my life to no end.  I am so thankful for our fourth child who is on her way, due in January, Elizabeth Grace because she has taught me so much already.

It was through Elizabeth that I learned about something called anencephaly.  Anencephaly is a condition where the top of the baby’s skull does not grow into place, and so the brain is left unguarded from the amniotic fluid that the baby lives in for their first 40 weeks (or so) of growth.  Without this protection the brain’s higher function cannot develop and so the baby will grow and mature with only his/her lower level brain functions.  The short version of the story is that while the baby will generally, grow and develop normally, after she is born and removed from her mothers’ body she will not be able to live on her own.  The condition was described by our doctors as … fatal.  She may live outside of the womb for a few minutes, a few hours, or maybe a few days – but she will leave us, far sooner than we ever imagined.

I cannot adequately describe the absolute shock I felt when we were told, or explain the excruciating pain that comes not from a physical blow but from what feels like an emotional bludgeoning of finding out you will lose your child, and soon.  The sharpness of the early pain has dulled, but the throbbing ache of loss is still constant.  There are days when I feel as if I have had no sleep because of the fitfulness of my dreams, and the understanding that my night was filled with thoughts of my baby girl.  Mornings are the worst, as I ready myself for my day and my mind settles on thoughts of my beautiful and precious Elizabeth.  I think about all that she could have been, and all that I will miss – and how it all seems so unfair.  My perfectly imperfect baby girl, who is so beautiful and precious to me, will be gone so soon.

Why?  That was my first question, isn’t it everyone’s?  Why is this happening?  What have I done to deserve this?  It took months before I could say in a clear-headed way, the answer is sin.  We live in a world that God once said was good, but since the entrance of sin into our world and the fall of man, we and our planet are far from good.  We sin against an Almighty God and there are consequences.  Our perfect little world, and our chance to be perfect here – it’s gone.  It seems like a sad story, that only gets sadder with the news of my perfectly imperfect baby girl, but Elizabeth’s story is not one of sadness but one of mercy and grace.  Thinking about Elizabeth has made me realize the beautiful picture that God is painting.

You see, the story doesn’t end with the fall and our imperfections.  No, as soon as man sinned God’s plan went into action, and one day His Son, Jesus Christ was born to this Earth.  The Perfect, sinless Christ lived, died, and rose again to defeat our sin, and our imperfection for us because we couldn’t do it on our own.  Why does Elizabeth and anencephaly remind me of this?  It’s why I am so thankful this Thanksgiving, for my freedom and for my family.

The death, burial, and resurrection of Christ assure me freedom, and it can do the same for you – if you will accept it.  His gift promises us freedom from sin and from the penalty of sin, which is eternal separation from God after death.  In fact His gift offers us the very real promise that we can one day be made perfect again!  Just like it was supposed to be way back when, before it all fell apart…and that’s where I am so thankful on behalf of my family because, I know that one day I will get to see my beautiful precious baby girl again, and she will be perfect.

This Thanksgiving, I am so thankful for my freedom and for my family.  I am so blessed.

Elizabeth Grace was born on February 3, 2012 and passed away February 5, 2012.

I still think of her every single day – and her memory warms my heart. She was as beautiful as i’d imagined she’d be and she was strong and sweet just like her mother. A piece of my heart will be missing until the day God calls me home, but I am so thankful for the two wonderful days I had with my precious and perfectly imperfect little girl.

This Thanksgiving, be thankful for and love on your families…

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